As Miss Manners pointed out when she was settling a who-should-pay-for-dinner question, that meant the girl’s parents provided whatever refreshments were appropriate, whereas in the twentieth century, the man paid for the date.
One of the most scandalous aspects of the Twenties was the propensity for daring young women (“flappers”) to go out to speakeasies, dance halls, restaurants, and parties without a chaperone.
At the beginning of the 20th century, a shift took place and chaperoned, arranged courting was replaced by independent dating.
The world of dating in America has changed dramatically over the last century.
Instead, it was a "competitive game," a way for girls and boys to demonstrate their popularity.
In 1937, sociologist Willard Waller published a study in the .
His study of Penn State undergraduates detailed a "dating and rating" system based on very clear standards of popularity.
Reading Miss Manners last week reminded me that dating began in the Roaring Twenties.
As the system evolved, casual dating became the norm and mingling between the classes became more common. Without parental interference or supervision, dating choices were less affected by wealth and notoriety and more influenced by personal characteristics and qualities.